How to Attract Emotionally Available Men
Learn how to attract men who are ready for commitment and relationships, without any games or taking weeks to figure out if he's the one.
Any woman can have her dream man, even if she feels she's been “unlucky in love” for years.
Over the last 7 years, I have learned the science of what actually causes “attraction” and why so many women feel powerless over who they fall for. Even if he has all the red flags she's already experienced.
Because I know exactly what makes the brain fall in love, I know what it takes to turn off being a “magnet for weirdos” and turn on the exact part of your brain that easily filters the men who are serious.
My client, Jessica, stopped mistaking Love Bombing for true connection and has saved months of time figuring out if a guy is serious or not.
Finding an emotionally available man requires NO:
Specific text to send him to get him “intrested”
Understanding his or even your own attachment style
Manifestation “hacks”, crystals, or rituals
Tik Tok tarot reader telling you his feelings about you
Treading carefully to not “set him off” or “trigger his avoidant attachment”
Flirting or acting in a way that's unauthentic to you (people can sense when you're putting on a show)
Taking weeks to “figure him out”
Matching his energy
Late night Google searches figuring out if he likes you
Raising or lowering your standards
Watering yourself down to not be “too intense” (I told Mike on the first date marriage was the goal, he's still here and now I have a ring)
More “lessons from the Universe” in the form of heartbreak and misery. You are done learning sis ✨️
Here's how it works:
Find out your dating pattern
(I’ll show you how to do this)
Learn why you keep attracting unavailable men on repeat
(In 60 minutes, you'll understand the exact science of attraction and how to undo years of this pattern and learn to create a new attraction pattern)
Reset your dating pattern
(If you follow the exact steps I give you, your body will automatically know who is serious about you or not within just one conversation.)
So easy right? It’s supposed to be. Dating and relationships shouldn’t feel like an emotional land-mine that will cause him to disappear at any moment because you asked “what are we?”
What's Included
a complete step-by-step guide to help you understand why finding a healthy relationship is not based on “luck”, but science.
clear instructions on how to reset your dating pattern so you can break the “situationship cycle” permanently.
best practices to train your brain and body to pick up on subtle cues (like speech, verbiage, body language) that tell you if he's not worth your time
turn your intuition into a secret weapon so you don't waste weeks or even months of your time on a guy who isn't it (pssst some of my clients can now pick up in one conversation if he's not worth your time)
clear, solid, science backed explanations on why you kept attracting guys who were never serious and why it was never your fault.
the full scientific method you need to hit the reset button on what you are attracting and are attracted to, so the men who are serious about you, start to become more noticeable to you.
Imagine: Never becoming emotionally attached to a man who isn't serious about you again. Being able to pick up in a few moments if he is potential boyfriend material or a waste of energy.
Elise, what do I have to do to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men?
It’s honestly simple. I promise 🩷 I give you all the tools and resources you need to start resetting your dating pattern in 20 minutes a day. Once you actually start to address the part of your brain that's responsible for how you make connections and with who, everything else (like dating genuinely good men) starts to click into place.
This is the missing link that has been keeping you stuck in “situationship purgatory” for years. And it's about damn time it stops.
This is what makes this different from any other “method” you've tried.
See the yellow part of your brain?
That is the “Prefrontal Cortex”. It's where 100% of your decision making comes from. It's where the “I'm going to send this flirty text” or “I need to add this standard to my vision board” lives. Every “dating advice and tip” is here.
See the purple part?
That is your “Limbic System”. It's where your long term memory and emotional processing centers are. This is the part of the brain where your relationship patterns are stored and why you feel like you're a “magnet for red-flags.”
It's not that flirting or vision boards are wrong.
It's that they live in two separate parts of the brain.
Your “thinking brain” wants a healthy relationship and understands the red flags.
But your “old relationship pattern” part of the brain will unknowingly to you, throw out all common sense out the window and start chasing the walking red flag because that is what that part of the brain is seeking out.
That is the disconnect.
Not “luck”
Not "timing"
The brain.
I get it, I am just another “dating coach from Instagram.”
You’ve been burned before.
Not just by bad dates, but by people promising they could help you find your soulmate.
You got the course. The manifesting workbook. The “10 texts to send him.”
And he still pulled away.
Now he’s posting another girl to his story, and you feel like you did something wrong.
I know, because I was hurt by it too.
That’s why this system has nothing to do with him. The focus is on you 🩷
I was spiraling over a guy (it was embarrassing 🤣).
I was a grown woman running a business, getting my shit together, and spiraling over a boy.
I followed every trick and tip to “attract him.”
There were so many fireworks that people assumed we were already together.
Then he pulled away.
He was also the first guy I was into after leaving an 8 year, covert narcissist relationship.
Anywhoodles, it was messy.
I totally lost myself.
When he rejected me (thank GOD), I came out like “wtf just happened, and how do I make sure I never lose myself to a guy again?”
Because that was my pattern.
Meet guy ➡️ chemistry ➡️ passion and love bombing ➡️ lose my mind and senses ➡️ waste months or years of time ➡️ totally heartbroken and back in the dating scene with more hurt and bitterness
I don’t remember the exact moment, but somewhere in 10 years of healing rabbit holes, I thought “AH-HA, it’s the BRAIN’S FAULT.”
Then I found neuroscience and fell in love.
I won’t B.S. you. My story is messy. Traumas, abusive relationships, a lot I’m not ready to share publicly.
But every single road to healing I took led back to the brain.
After I reset my dating pattern, it took 3 weeks to meet Mike. Now? I have a ring 💍
What I can promise you:
It doesn’t matter if you have Capital T Trauma or not, how the human brain makes connections with other people is primal.
It’s the same across all humans.
The brain is malleable and can be changed, and that is exactly what I show you how to do so you can stop repeating the same dating patterns again and again.
It's time for you to actually rewrite the program that has been working against you this whole time.
Have more questions?
No worries! Just scroll to the FAQ section at the bottom of this page!